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25 signs your wife is disrespecting you

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Here are some signs of a disrespectful wife. Read these signs of a disrespectful wife to identify if some of these signs hold true for you.

If you feel that some or all of these signs are applicable to you, there is a dire need to take appropriate action to deal with this stressful situation effectively.

1. Your wife is rude towards you

She may openly criticize you in front of friends and family. And not in a cute, teasing way, such as “Oh, look at how messy your hair is!”

No, the rude wife will take that even further, perhaps stating in front of your friends, “He can never be bothered to care about how he looks.” This makes you feel belittled and embarrassed. This is definitely not okay.

2. Whatever you do, it is not enough

Your efforts to work hard to ensure that the family is well cared for financially go unnoticed or even criticized.

“I come home from the office, exhausted after another long day at work, and my wife treats me like crap,” stated one man who is dealing with a disrespectful wife. “I cannot understand why all the things I do to make her happy are never enough,” he continues. “She’s such an ungrateful wife!”

What he doesn’t understand is that an unappreciative wife who does not acknowledge her husband’s efforts to contribute to the family’s well-being is one of the signs of a disrespectful wife.

3. Your wife never listens to you

When one has lost respect for one’s spouse, it is not unusual for them to stop listening to you.

Ignoring your attempts at communication is a passive-aggressive way to show a lack of respect as if what you have to say is not worth tuning into.

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It is very hurtful to be met with this type of behavior, as it can make you feel like your opinions are not valuable.

4. Your wife neglects her household responsibilities

The housework goes undone, and the place is a mess. Laundry is left in the dryer; dishes stack up in the sink, the garbage can is overflowing.

You come home from work, look around at the chaos in the house, and say to yourself, “My wife doesn’t respect me. If she did, she would at least do her part of the household chores so that when I get home from work, I don’t have to take care of everything at home then.”

Not keeping up her part of what makes a marriage run smoothly is one of the signs of a disrespectful wife.

5. Your wife makes no time for you

One of the sure signs your wife doesn’t respect you is when she is constantly on her phone, computer, or tablet or watching the latest series on television instead of interacting with you.

She prefers to spend her weekends with her friends. All of these actions take time away from your couple. You feel like you are no longer a priority in her life.

6. Your wife does not acknowledge what you bring to the marriage

Your latest promotion, the work you do around the house, taking her car to the mechanic for a tune-up – she does not congratulate you on your accomplishments, nor does she thank you for your caring tasks.

7. Your wife belittles you

Whether in public or private, she cuts you down and makes you feel lower than an earthworm!

Despite being a perfectly able person, she makes you feel worthless and makes you doubt your competency.

If this is happening to you, by now, you should know that you are living with a disrespectful wife.

8. Your wife is difficult

Living with a difficult wife is taxing on the spirit. You never know what she is going to do next.

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You cannot please her. She will criticize you, your friends, and your family. And, forget discussing critical issues; even talking about simple day-to-day things with her isn’t easy!

9. Your wife treats you as if it doesn’t matter if you stay or go

She will keep the television on when you attempt to talk with her or continue on her phone call.

When you leave for work in the morning, she doesn’t bother to even get out of bed to say goodbye, let alone kiss you and wish you a good day.

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10. Your wife is stubborn

Stubbornness is one of the signs of a disrespectful wife that is very hard to mitigate. To deal with a stubborn wife who is so set in her ways is a struggle.

She thinks it is her way or the highway, that she is always right and you are wrong.

11. Your wife exhibits disrespectful behavior on her social media 

She flirts with old boyfriends on her Facebook and poses inappropriately on her Instagram feed.

Having fun-filled conversations with friends or having a healthy relationship with an ex isn’t wrong, but there are boundaries.

If she continues to behave in an inappropriate way, despite you objecting to it, it is certainly disrespectful behavior from her end.

12. Your wife flirts with other men in front of you

“My wife openly flirts with waiters, salesmen, and the barista at our coffee place. I cannot bear her flirtatious behavior,” says one man who is dealing with a disrespectful wife.

When a wife exhibits seductive behavior in your presence, the impact can be devastating, making you feel like you are not manly enough to keep her satisfied and interested in you.

Shamelessly flirting with others indicates a lack of respect between husband and wife and should not be tolerated. It can act as one of the clear signs of a wife who is losing respect for her husband.

13. Your wife degrades your friends and family

She never has a kind word to say about your best friend. It isn’t just about any specific person. She generally hates your parents and siblings or any other person close to you.

She may go so far as to refuse to attend any of your side of the family’s events.

14. She gives you a cold shoulder

If she doesn’t agree with something you said, she is capable of giving you the cold shoulder for days at a time.

Even if you try to apologize or resolve the issues, she will prefer sulking and continue giving you the silent treatment. All these are the signs of a disrespectful wife in a marriage.

15. Your wife does not know the meaning of compromise

This is part of her stubborn nature. You either have to do things her way, or you don’t do them at all. There is no meeting in the middle nor any effort to negotiate a win-win situation.

16. Your wife is emotionally manipulative

To get what she wants, she will use manipulative methods, including threats, guilt trips, spreading lies about you, or other inappropriate behaviors, all to force you to do what she wants.

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Being manipulative is indeed one of the signs of being disrespectful towards a person.

17. Your wife points to others’ marriages as better than yours

If she continually voices her envy about other couples’ relationships, saying, “Why can’t we be like them?” This is another sign of a disrespectful wife.

It is okay to appreciate other happy couples around you. But, comparing it with other couples, despite you trying your best to keep her happy, certainly is disrespectful.

18. You haven’t had any sexual intimacy in ages

You haven’t gone to bed together in a long time, and you can’t even remember the last time you had sex!

She stays up late, watching television or playing games on her computer. You find yourself in bed, alone, night after night.


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How women enslave men from ages.

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Every Man irrespective of who they are must read the book by a German writer Esther Villar In her book “The Manipulated Man”

This book has caused outrage and hostile criticism from women, it explains how women since the earliest times have manipulated men and turned them into their slaves, they have pretended to be the oppressed sex while in the real sense they are the oppressors.

She explains how a woman manipulates a man skillfully by steps like courtship and finally marriage , hence the saying “ a man chases a woman until SHE catches him”.

In her book she explains how the man is tricked to care for the woman all his life and her offspring.

He rolls the stone like Sisyphus and in turn gets rewarded by a few minutes of sexual pleasure.

We can, by observing Esther Villars assertions that a man is a slave of his desires and the woman uses and has used it for thousands of years as a stick and carrot to keep the man chasing vanity and commit his life to serving her.

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She goes ahead to explain the rivalry of women, how each woman feels the powerful urge and need to own a male for herself.

Like a slave owner she detests any move the man would make to offer his services to another woman. She uses all means to keep the man to herself and her offspring alone.

Esther Villar’s sentiments are captured by Nigerian Poet, critic and writer, Chinweizu Ibekwe in his book, “The Anatomy of Female Power” (AFP) and Will Farrel’s, “The Predatory Female”.

They all push the theory that all societies are matriarchal and not patriarchal as we are pushed and forced to believe. Matriarchy has ruled not through brawn but wits and tricks; women feigning weakness to be protected etc. Thus the male becomes the most exploited sex in human history, (in wars the man is always ready to die for the woman; he has been trained to do that).

Chinweizu calls the idea of dating and courtship, training , like that of a horse. It is during this time that a woman having kept the man on a leash by denying him sex and getting him addicted to her by false charms, trains and breaks him to whatever she wants him to become.

The marriage celebration becomes a celebration for the woman and her friends, and they all congratulate her for having succeeded in getting herself a slave.

A man on that wedding day waves goodbye to his independence and his coalition of males and commits himself to a Sisyphean life, rolling the stone, an act he cannot abandon having society and the government checking on him and always ready to jail , shame or exile him for absconding his duties of slavery.

Thus the government and society helps the woman in keeping her slave (man) in check.

Chinweizu gives a narration of how women are trained by older matriarchs to tame men. He explains how a man is trained to rely on women by his own mother.

A man is shamed for cooking for himself and other domestic chores by his own mother who is an agent of the global matriarchal rule.

By getting the man to hate domestic works and having it enforced by culture which warns men against going into the kitchen, doing laundry etc.

The mother trains his son for the woman who will captivate him and when the time comes she takes hold of the man’s stomach and by getting the man addicted to her body she holds him by the two, in bed and in the kitchen.

With those two weapons she manipulates the man and turns him into her plaything.

In the “Myth of the Male Power”, Esther Villar’s “A Man’s Right to the Other Woman”; “The Polygamous Sex”, the authors of those books challenge the narrative that men oppress women, and by detailed research across African, Western and Eastern both in ancient and modern societies, the authors unravel the hidden power of the ruthless matriarchal power that rules the world.

Also Helen E. Fisher did anthropological research of ancient human societies and wrote the book “The Sex Contract, The evolution of human behaviour” 1982. She too came to the conclusion that Marriage is a selfish creation of a Woman, where she uses sex to manipulate a man to take care of her and her offspring. Other male animals do not carry the same burden and responsibility.

President’s, Emperors and Kings are all puppets of the matriarchy forces that rule the World by pulling the strings from behind the curtains

 

 


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Ibadan ace broadcaster appreciates wife for staying through the thick and thin journey of their life.

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An Ibadan based broadcaster, whose name and identity is withheld has penned down an appreciative message for his wife for staying with him when he had nothing.

According to the missing you chats sighted by JN25 reveals that the wife has been financing the family when the husband was out of job for long time.

The husband chats to his wife shows he was thankful to God and his wife for staying with him through the turbulence period of economy hardship.

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What happens to a man in a sexless marriage?

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Sex in a marriage is as important as love. Besides the daily turmoils of marriage, couples should be able to focus on their sex life equally. But many a time, one person is more interested in sex than the other, gradually creating intimacy issues within the marriage. When the other person stops indulging in any sexual activities, it can get severely frustrating. Let’s now know how a sexless marriage affects a man in many ways.

02/6Affairs

When a man is unable to fulfil his sexual needs in the marriage, his thoughts automatically shift towards finding it outside of the marriage. He is more likely to have an affair if he doesn’t get sex with his wife. When all hope of reviving the intimacy in the marriage is lost, he will be frustrated to the point where it leaves him no choice.

03/6Resentments

When work takes precedence over marital bliss and sex, resentment towards each other start to grow. He might feel angry and irritated when he is unable to have sex, as his wife prefers to sleep at night instead of indulging in sex, at least once.

Lack of emotional attachments

In a sexless marriage, the man might start to feel less emotionally attached to his wife. Love and sex go hand-in-hand in marriage and both are equally important to sustain the bonds in the marriage. He might start to drift apart and be less indulgent in any activities that include bonding or togetherness-time.

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Increase in stress

Research suggests that people who have sex frequently have low-stress levels as opposed to those who do it rarely. The lack of sex in marriage might increase the stress levels in the man’s life causing random bursts of anger and irritation. Gradually, he won’t be able to concentrate on other aspects of his life.

Depression and anxiety

The more you have sex, the happier you will be. While this is completely true. Depression and anxiety can also arise to the lack of sexual satisfaction in a man’s life. Sexual satisfaction is important to keep mental health problems in check. This can even lead to further physical problems like erectile dysfunction.


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